In case you haven’t figured it out, we aren’t cat owners; we are more like cat servants. We do their bidding to keep them happy and hope they’ll bestow their love and affection on us in response. We spend our lives trying to understand these precious little creatures in hopes of forming a bond. When something as simple as your cat coming up to you and placing their paw on your hand happens, our hearts flutter with the hope that we’ve satisfied our precious gifts. Unfortunately, that isn’t always the case. Here’s a look at 10 possible reasons your cat may be “holding your hand”. Hopefully, this will help you navigate this odd occurrence and proceed correctly to not upset your kitty queen or king.
The 10 Possible Reasons Why Your Cat Holds Your Hand
1. Security
As pet owners, we want our fur babies to feel safe and protected. If you have conveyed this sense of security and protection to your cat, they may show you their appreciation and love by laying their paw in your hand. This sweet gesture is heartwarming to those of us who strive to provide our pets with a great home life. By placing their paw on our hand, your cat is also displaying a level of trust in you, so be happy that your cat feels secure in your presence.
2. Love and Affection
Cats are often misunderstood creatures. Each one you meet has their own personality. Perhaps your cat showers you with love and affection daily. Maybe your cat decides to give you a bit of love when they decide you deserve it. Either way it goes, placing their paw in your hand can be one of the ways cats show they love you. Now, you know your cat best. If they do this and your heart swells with love, your immediate reaction could be to go in for a cuddle. If your cat is a cuddle bug, by all means, go for it. However, if you have one of those cats that only allows affection on their terms, offering a hug after a session of hand-holding may be pushing it. Tread lightly in those cases, my friend.
3. Your Cat Needs Attention
As we’ve already mentioned, cats often want things on their terms. Another reason they may try holding your hand is to get your attention. Whether this is a need for affection, they’re out of food, or they want to play, it is a great way to make you take notice. Cats do not like being overlooked by their human minions. If you don’t notice their cues and give them the attention they desire, or you overstimulate them, the hand-holding could develop into wrapping their paws around you and biting scenarios. Keep your kitty happy to keep your hand safe.
4. The Kitty Is Happy
Kitties love showing you they are happy. You’ll hear the purring. You may even get to feel the wonderful presence of their claws as they make biscuits on your arm, leg, or chest. Another way your cat may show they are happy is to reach over, placing their paw in your hand. This is a sweet gesture made by many cats to show their home life is everything they want it to be. Take the gesture to heart. Making a cat happy, even for a few fleeting moments, is something all kitty minions strive to do.
5. Kitty Wants a Pet
Cats want pets when they are in the mood. Some kitties welcome this type of attention all the time. Others, not so much. If your cat comes to you and places their paw in your hand, they could potentially want a pet. This is where knowing your cat comes into play. Read their body language. If your cat seems loving, go for the pet. If not, just continue to hold their hand until they convey what they truly want from you. It’s a dicey situation, but you’ll figure it out. Hopefully.
6. Your Cat Is Feeling Playful
Cats love to play. They also like making whatever they find into a toy. This can include your hand. Don’t be surprised if your cat hops up next to you and places their paw on your hand, wanting you to share in the fun. Usually, however, when your cat wants you to play, the hand-holding doesn’t last long. They’ll initiate you into the fun.
7. Loneliness
Yes, even though they are often mistakenly considered the most aloof domestic pets around, cats can still get lonely. When you work long hours or have to spend more time away, don’t be surprised if your cat comes to let you know they miss you. Placing their paw in your hand is a sweet, gentle reminder that although they rule the house, you’re still their human and they miss you.
8. You’re Annoying
Cat owners are known for trying their best to play, cuddle, and otherwise spend time with their kitties. Our cats, on the other hand, aren’t always in the mood for this kind of attention. If that’s the case, you may reach out and try to pet your cat when they don’t want you to. Using their paw to stop you may look like hand-holding, but it’s your cat’s way of saying you’re annoying them.
9. Anxiousness
Cats can get anxious when changes happen around the house. It can be something as simple as moving a piece of furniture, or it could be something major like construction work outside. When your kitty gets nervous, you are often their go-to for help. Be supportive and don’t ignore the gesture. This will help your cat feel more reassured and at ease, and provide them with a quiet, safe space they can withdraw to if they choose to do so..
10. Your Cat Is Having a Bad Day
There are times when your cat may simply be having a bad day and wants to be near you to make things better. They could be feeling under the weather or simply bored. Whatever is making their day less than cat-tactic, coming to hold your hand may make it better. However, if you notice any signs of illness or behavioral changes, your cat appearing lethargic or not themselves, it’s important to reach out to a vet for advice.
Conclusion
While there are multiple reasons your cat could be holding your hand, knowing your cat is the best way to decipher the ancient code these curious creatures live by. When your kitty comes over to show some affection, be accepting. However, always remember your cat’s mood can change within seconds, so don’t be shocked if the loving gesture goes awry quickly. It’s just the way cats are.
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The 10 Possible Reasons Why Your Cat Holds Your Hand
